Crying....

[lyla23]

Is crying :crying1: good to express negative feelings and release pent-up stress? What do you think is better when one is sad or stressed out?
going for a walk,
taking a vacation
talking to a friend
or crying in solitude

Sometimes you might have heard people saying that crying is antisocial and sign of weakness.

Stasoo da tolo sa khayal dai?

[Zahid Buneray]

There are two types of cries. I will not expain it otherwise, "Badmashan" will hack this thread too.:icon_biggrin:

I believe, sometime, cry is the only solution to release your stress. It can give you an impresstion too that you are a human being and so weak.

But the methoed to release the stress varies between the people. For example, I was listeing to a beauty queen participater that she is taking repeated "shawers" if streesed.

some people will advise you to give time in Tablighee Jumat. But I believe, sometimes, their couldn't be the alternate of the cry.

Yesterday, I called on a person, two Year back, his small son had died from cancer. But the reason of my call was; his another son falled to a cave and died too. Someone should tell me that if he is not crying, how could he release his emotions? And should some one consider "weak" in this regard? No, he may not be weak but the cicumenstances made them weak because his a human being so that he is sometime helpless which make him cry.

[lyla23]

Zahid wror, very sad to know about your friend's sons.

Personally I think crying is very important. It lightens your heart, and cleans your eyes. Also one looks beautiful after crying. :sad3:

[MandoKhail]

women always cry if they are sad or not.
man never cries..:icon_biggrin:

proud to be a man.:icon_biggrin:

[lyla23]

Men don't cry 'cos they make others cry. :confused4:

[MandoKhail]

Men don't cry 'cos they make others cry. :confused4:
Oye Phd! don't be seriuse...joking:(

[lyla23]

really, I was joking too, then...:)

[MandoKhail]

really, I was joking too, then...:)
:hoonh: :rolleye: :sick:

[Zahid Buneray]

Zahid wror, very sad to know about your friend's sons.

Personally I think crying is very important. It lightens your heart, and cleans your eyes. Also one looks beautiful after crying. :sad3:

You have expalined it very well.

[Nokia_Afridi]

Mando khail lala na yara dasey ma waya ......

chay proud 2b a man
Jara ka Dair khwand da............da Sarey zra warsra pa Kalara shi.......

da zma Tajruba da..........:hoonh:

[DawezayMomand]

Mando khail lala na yara dasey ma waya ......

chay proud 2b a man
Jara ka Dair khwand da............da Sarey zra warsra pa Kalara shi.......

da zma Tajruba da..........:hoonh:

Nokia, pa tsa passey wajaarho yaar? da jarha tsa shtha na no!

[zar qurban]

Nokia, pa tsa passey wajaarho yaar? da jarha tsa shtha na no!
Nokia kho dunya pase zaheer de.yara mong kho prado filmono aw dramo ta Hesbesa Wojarho.
Nokia da sandara awra aw zrha la takor warkawa...
Ma Jarha zargia khair de ra ba shee
domra me bawar de che reshtia ba shee

[lyla23]

Dramo la soak hesbesa kala om na jaarhee, charta charta agha zamoong feelings om portray kayee, zar saib...soah pai okay.
For example, ka da cha zoy paida shee, aao toal agha kas la different nomoona suggest kee, kho pakay siraf da yaw kas noom select shee, no noar kasaan kho ba khafa shee kana.
No ka pa dramay kai daasay scene ee, no maala kho ba naturally alta jarha raashee.:icon_biggrin:

[Nokia_Afridi]

hahahaha Zar-Qurban tata saga pata chay za pa Dunya psay jaram

awo rekhtya darta pata da mara cha cherta lara.........:hoonh:

awo Dawazay lala dair Drund da zma Dastan .......

(Da Khanda Sra GHUM sa Kam kho nashey )......

Dailoge kha ma kha da kna ......

Awo Lyla Aunty mara da Pimunu ta za na jaram kho

DOSTI flim ta ma jarley wo..........rekhya waim :icon_biggrin:

[zar qurban]

Nokia da Ghazal kho sta na de kana...

Gula raza larey saral zmana na kegi nor
tana judaa jwandoon zmana na kegi nor


Che janan nishta pa khalee godar de aor olagi
Khali godar ta tlal ratlal zmana na kegi nor

Yo khwa tyarey bal khwa da larey aw mazal azghaney
Da pa Thanrhako khpo mazal zma na kegi nor


Da musalsal larey saral , kho sum pa daar khatal dee
Shogera Shpa aw pa dar khatal zma na na kegi nor

[Khanjee]

Nokia da Ghazal kho sta na de kana...

Da musalsal larey saral , kho sum pa daar khatal dee
Shogera Shpa aw pa dar khatal zma na na kegi nor


Qadarmando Salamona,

Zar qurban lala Ghazal ka da harcha dy kho, zra ta me deer kha olageedo..

lolzz

manana.

[Afriday]

There are two kinds of cries.Yawaa Jaraa Da Masthay daa aw balaa jaraa da rikhthyaawo jaraa daa.Mathaa sthaa Cry da Masthay lagee.:icon_biggrin:

[lyla23]

Da rishtya jarha Afriday pa paltalk kai kayee, kala che daryaboon ogoaree.:)

[Nokia_Afridi]

Nokia da Ghazal kho sta na de kana...

Gula raza larey saral zmana na kegi nor
tana judaa jwandoon zmana na kegi nor


Che janan nishta pa khalee godar de aor olagi
Khali godar ta tlal ratlal zmana na kegi nor

Yo khwa tyarey bal khwa da larey aw mazal azghaney
Da pa Thanrhako khpo mazal zma na kegi nor


Da musalsal larey saral , kho sum pa daar khatal dee
Shogera Shpa aw pa dar khatal zma na na kegi nor..

WAkh Wakh Kheruna da wi..........kho Lala rekhtya kho da di

chay


خولۀ او په سترګو د عالم سره یم
خو پټ په زړه که کښی د صنم سره یم

[Zahid Buneray]

Bey Adabi De maaf wee laila khore. Ko da saar aman wee no che yaw swal okam.

Pa gham key kho har sok jaree, kho da Khushalai pa wakht da khazo da stargo na daa okhkey waley zee hmmm?

[lyla23]

Aap kee jaan main nai Bakhshee Zahid bhai, kya yaad rakhaingai aap bhee!

I think when you are not expecting any good, and you receive an overwhelming response or reward, that is why we cry in happiness. That is the case with me.
A good question!

[MandoKhail]

women are full of nakhray and nazoona that's why..:icon_biggrin:

[Afriday]

women are full of nakhray and nazoona that's why..:icon_biggrin:
Da Khazo Makarr der kharaab wee....Daa Dunyaa Kho hum da Khazo da Laasaa wraanaa daa.Khazaa is full of Makarr and unpredictable i heard although i dont have any personal experience....:icon_biggrin:

[lyla23]

women are full of nakhray and nazoona that's why..:icon_biggrin:


And men love the same nazoona and nakhray of women. when women don't have them, then they call them, "dimagh ae pa asman kai dee."

[lyla23]

Da Khazo Makarr der kharaab wee....Daa Dunyaa Kho hum da Khazo da Laasaa wraanaa daa.Khazaa is full of Makarr and unpredictable i heard although i dont have any personal experience....:icon_biggrin:

That is because they know they can control men only by "manipulation." ha ha:)

[Afriday]

And men love the same nazoona and nakhray of women. when women don't have them, then they call them, "dimagh ae pa asman kai dee."
Bas che harsa waaye dunyaa mo wraana karay daa....:icon_biggrin:

[MandoKhail]

And men love the same nazoona and nakhray of women. when women don't have them, then they call them, "dimagh ae pa asman kai dee."
ahaa..something new:icon_biggrin:
hassay yawa khabara da aw da ba rasraa manai....women is not women without nazoona n nakhray?right?but why they use such sufisticated nazoona n nakhray..poor men:( :rolleye:

[lyla23]

Bas che harsa waaye dunyaa mo wraana karay daa....:icon_biggrin:

AAo agha sarhee che charta ba pai "paighambaree" raatla, os da khazo na gair chapaira choorlaigee. Dunyaa kho ba khod rwaanai gee, che sarhee husan la dair zyaat da teengai nee.

[naashna]

da husan ba yawazay khaza ke ye no...
misalona kho da sardee da husan pratha dee..
kho khazo lamunda bus pa husan, naz, nakhra, makkareye, pakhlee, awo pa bacho ukhwarda...
pa de ye hum na yem khafa...
kho daad kegi pe hum na kana..
her wakh ye khwla waza ye..

[brightonlala]

Khaza yaw showpiece da
sardee ye zan ta deera khukale krree
da khazo na lip stick aw soorkhee powder ler ka no sam kachaloo khkareee haha

kho bya ham werta sarree wayee che ,

KHAIR DA ROOH DE RANA LARR SHEE KHAIR DA ZAN DE RANA LARR SHEE
KHO WALLAH KA ZRRAH ME GHWARREE CHE JANAN DE RANA LARRSHEE

[naashna]

bilkul dwarda da yawo na baghair wakh nashee therawalay...

[soastus]

Khaza yaw showpiece da
sardee ye zan ta deera khukale krree
da khazo na lip stick aw soorkhee powder ler ka no sam kachaloo khkareee haha

kho bya ham werta sarree wayee che ,

KHAIR DA ROOH DE RANA LARR SHEE KHAIR DA ZAN DE RANA LARR SHEE
KHO WALLAH KA ZRRAH ME GHWARREE CHE JANAN DE RANA LARRSHEE
Brighton Lala Salamoona

I cant agree with what you say. I dont wear make up, I dont even wear jewellery, nothing in the form of adornment (personal choice), I am 90% of the time dressed very simply and formal, but I know the affect I have on men when I walk into a room:icon_biggrin:

[soastus]

Is crying :crying1: good to express negative feelings and release pent-up stress? What do you think is better when one is sad or stressed out?
going for a walk,
taking a vacation
talking to a friend
or crying in solitude

Sometimes you might have heard people saying that crying is antisocial and sign of weakness.

Stasoo da tolo sa khayal dai?
I know about myself, that when I was 18 I promised myself I would never cry again, and for the last 15 years I kept my promise, but in 2006 I cried twice.
Once in June when my son was unconscious and we could not wake him. after a night full of fighting with doctors who thought it was beneath them to talk to a woman (bibi da dey mashoom plar kamzaey dey? awaz kay wertha). My father came to see us and when he asked how I was doing I broke down and cried.

The second time on 31st of december 2006. I had left my wallet at the office I was returning to pick it up when I came across a very terrible accident. the road was closed there were fire trucks, ambulances and police cars everywhere. At that moment my friend who my son had gone to visit called and said that the boys were in a car accident. I parked the car and locked my other two kids in it, i told them to stay there until I got back and I ran through the police line. the first car was really destroyed the second car was in bad shape too, my heart fell but just then I saw my son giving a statement to the police. I stood queitly till he turned around and saw me he came up to me, he put his arms around me and hugged me. His eyes teared when I asked how he was but he held on to me. His arm was badly bruised but he was okay.

My husband had been at the hospital and he had been paged too, when he arrived he offered to drive everyone home. I asked my son if he wanted me to take him home, he said "It wont look good if I leave my friends now, they will think that I have abondoned them. I have to explain to their parents that it was not their fault."

I follwed them and I cried, becasue my 14 year old had been 5 feet 11 for a while but that day he had grown into a man.

[lyla23]

Soastus:

You are a very strong woman. Mash'allah!

Now may I ask why at the age of 18 you promised yourself never to cry again. What is so special about that number 18?:icon_biggrin:

[naashna]

soastus bibi! i think crying for purpose is natural,
but that women crying for manipulation is the same as harsh man shouting to show their rage.

Now about the effect of a women on men without makeover is the same as of man's who not using artificial or bogus manners or silly jokes.

da khazo hum nor sa mathlub nishtha kho che bus sardee nor kaar pridee awo bus deye tha laka da birbal awo mula dupyaza lathifay keye.

[MandoKhail]

I know about myself, that when I was 18 I promised myself I would never cry again, and for the last 15 years I kept my promise, but in 2006 I cried twice.
Once in June when my son was unconscious and we could not wake him. after a night full of fighting with doctors who thought it was beneath them to talk to a woman (bibi da dey mashoom plar kamzaey dey? awaz kay wertha). My father came to see us and when he asked how I was doing I broke down and cried.

The second time on 31st of december 2006. I had left my wallet at the office I was returning to pick it up when I came across a very terrible accident. the road was closed there were fire trucks, ambulances and police cars everywhere. At that moment my friend who my son had gone to visit called and said that the boys were in a car accident. I parked the car and locked my other two kids in it, i told them to stay there until I got back and I ran through the police line. the first car was really destroyed the second car was in bad shape too, my heart fell but just then I saw my son giving a statement to the police. I stood queitly till he turned around and saw me he came up to me, he put his arms around me and hugged me. His eyes teared when I asked how he was but he held on to me. His arm was badly bruised but he was okay.

My husband had been at the hospital and he had been paged too, when he arrived he offered to drive everyone home. I asked my son if he wanted me to take him home, he said "It wont look good if I leave my friends now, they will think that I have abondoned them. I have to explain to their parents that it was not their fault."

I follwed them and I cried, becasue my 14 year old had been 5 feet 11 for a while but that day he had grown into a man.
akhir pa taa hum da lyla asar washoo?:icon_biggrin:

oss paam kawai daa Dawezaymohmand hum da zrrah der kamzorai dai,oss ba ye pa thread zarraa/jarra shro karrai wee....:tongue:

[MandoKhail]

Soastus:

You are a very strong woman. Mash'allah!

Now may I ask why at the age of 18 you promised yourself never to cry again. What is so special about that number 18?:icon_biggrin:
18+15 = 33....she will be the first woman on earth who has told a trully a correct age:icon_biggrin:

Lyla khoo hara 5 myashtai pass 10 kala khpal umar kamawee...hahahhaaha

assay lyla! soustus oss hum tar taa 20 kala kashra da:)

[soastus]

soastus bibi! i think crying for purpose is natural,
but that women crying for manipulation is the same as harsh man shouting to show their rage.

Now about the effect of a women on men without makeover is the same as of man's who not using artificial or bogus manners or silly jokes.

da khazo hum nor sa mathlub nishtha kho che bus sardee nor kaar pridee awo bus deye tha laka da birbal awo mula dupyaza lathifay keye.

I have found that I get a whole lot more accomplished without crying:icon_biggrin: But then also must admit that I am good at twisting arms:icon_biggrin:

Smiles I save for a last resort.

[soastus]

akhir pa taa hum da lyla asar washoo?:icon_biggrin:

oss paam kawai daa Dawezaymohmand hum da zrrah der kamzorai dai,oss ba ye pa thread zarraa/jarra shro karrai wee....:tongue:

Ka zama amra sok khanda kawaley shi hagha Lyla da.

[soastus]

18+15 = 33....she will be the first woman on earth who has told a trully a correct age:icon_biggrin:

Lyla khoo hara 5 myashtai pass 10 kala khpal umar kamawee...hahahhaaha

assay lyla! soustus oss hum tar taa 20 kala kashra da:)

Mandokhail wrora
this is the age of surprising people with how young you look:icon_biggrin: Years no longer mean anything

[MandoKhail]

Mandokhail wrora
this is the age of surprising people with how young you look:icon_biggrin: Years no longer mean anything
hahahaha
after reading this post lyla has run away towards her makeup arsenals..hahahhaa....may be watching n talking to her self in a mirror...hahhahaha...ya Allah oss khair ke:icon_biggrin:

[lyla23]

18+15 = 33....she will be the first woman on earth who has told a trully a correct age:icon_biggrin:

Lyla khoo hara 5 myashtai pass 10 kala khpal umar kamawee...hahahhaaha

assay lyla! soustus oss hum tar taa 20 kala kashra da:)


really ta soastus sara charta milao shaway ae recetly. Zama kho armaan paatay sho, che za soastus sara milao shama. Tasoo kho dair khushqismata yai, che soastus darla khpal oomar khaylai dai...:confused4: :ashamed:

[MandoKhail]

really ta soastus sara charta milao shaway ae recetly. Zama kho armaan paatay sho, che za soastus sara milao shama. Tasoo kho dair khushqismata yai, che soastus darla khpal oomar khaylai dai...:confused4: :ashamed:
Read her post with open eyes n engaged mind..she goes'' she cried when she was 18..n then she goes..its been 15 years..right? now what?


Soustus!
hahahahhaha
hahahahahhha
Plz bring some ice-cubes n wrap it around lyla head...chi insaan buda shee bia jinjalee/chirr-chirra shee ..hahahhahaha:icon_biggrin:

[kakar]

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[Zahid Buneray]

I am one of those lucky people who knows her age. So you guys should consult me.

But lyla's situation is so complicated in this regard. I have her only one clue as what Zar Qurban quoted when he saw her near to the government college.

If you remembered, few days back, there was one picture of a women on the banner of Hujra, when I saw it, I suddenly considered her as Lyla but then remembred that no, she can't be her as she is so shy.:icon_biggrin:

According to Zar Qurban, she is "tora skanra" (excuse me, I did not read whole thread) and it was told that she was without make up while crossing Gov't college and taking against men.

Lyla! mata ma qareega, Zar Qurban raneesa.

[chaste]

hmm..well crying is an expression of emotions...n expressing emotions is healthy for normal human psycho...when u dont express feelings whther they r good or bad is going to collapse u ...n u will go away from life..so to stay human n near to life its not abig deal to shed these salty tears ..u feel good when u shed them as many a times they take half of the burden with u...so do cry when there is need to..coz u r human...we are here to wipe those tears ..this is what that join us together...

[lyla23]

O my God, zar qurban lala na kho mai da omeed no.

Agha om ma pasay khabaray karhai dee.

bas da insaan zrha katal pakaar ee. Ka toara ema, speena ema, booday ema, zwana ema, kho yawa khabara da, zrha mai dair kha dai. Soorat kho da insaan wakht sara larh shee. Kho zrha kha pakaar dai aao kana:confused:

[soastus]

dont worry lyla, we all know you are beautiful inside and out and Aneela told me how very attractive and smart you are.

If you guys are very very good Aneela may decide to share the picture she took of Lyla.

[MandoKhail]

dont worry lyla, we all know you are beautiful inside and out and Aneela told me how very attractive and smart you are.

If you guys are very very good Aneela may decide to share the picture she took of Lyla.
why you want to scare all KW?:icon_biggrin: ..everyone will be on run.:icon_biggrin: ...da cha ba saloo pata wee..aw da cha ba saplai...hahhahaha

[MandoKhail]

bas da insaan zrha katal pakaar ee. Ka toara ema, speena ema, booday ema, zwana ema, kho yawa khabara da, zrha mai dair kha dai. Soorat kho da insaan wakht sara larh shee. Kho zrha kha pakaar dai aao kana:confused:
Churlata! I am 101% agreed with Lyla that she posses a big n kind heart.

[lyla23]

dont worry lyla, we all know you are beautiful inside and out and Aneela told me how very attractive and smart you are.

If you guys are very very good Aneela may decide to share the picture she took of Lyla.


hahahh Soastus:

Please don't do that.

[lyla23]

Che nan nwar (sun) charta na raakhatay o. Kaash ka wakhtee sahar mai katalay o? :)

[bakhtawar]

Churlata! I am 101% agreed with Lyla that she posses a big n kind heart.


hahahah mandokhail wrora is that really you saying all those kind words mala kho yaqeen na razi nun kho rishtia nwar da bal zay na rakhatali de.:icon_biggrin:

[DawezayMomand]

akhir pa taa hum da lyla asar washoo?:icon_biggrin:

oss paam kawai daa Dawezaymohmand hum da zrrah der kamzorai dai,oss ba ye pa thread zarraa/jarra shro karrai wee....:tongue:
Alaka zalima za de pakey waley raa-wathapalam! ka da jarha khabara kay no....crying is a crime:icon_biggrin: kho da khazao da paara na. ka da umar/age khabara kay no der ther dhay lag paathay dhay.

[soastus]

why you want to scare all KW?:icon_biggrin: ..everyone will be on run.:icon_biggrin: ...da cha ba saloo pata wee..aw da cha ba saplai...hahhahaha
I doubt you will be running anywhere, you will be spell bound to the screen if you see an image of her, rust me, she is that beautiful.

[katawazi]

DE GHORONO PA SHAN DRANA SALAMONA

CRYING YANEE JARA PA SOO DOWLA KE WOZOR LAREY LAKA
PA ZARA NARAM YA ZARASWAND
YA BEBASEE
AW YA THANAHEE
AW DA RANGA NOOR LAKA ZANANEE BECHARAGANEE CHE DA ZARA BARKHA HEE PREE DA,

KHO DA MARAY (DODAY) PA MABAIN (JERYAN KE)KHO ME AWAL WAR DA CHE WAWREDAL
THASOO MERABANI WOKAY LANDI LINK THAS WAHA.
DA MOVIE CLIPS DE
http://cryingwhileeating.com/

[MandoKhail]

hahahah mandokhail wrora is that really you saying all those kind words mala kho yaqeen na razi nun kho rishtia nwar da bal zay na rakhatali de.:icon_biggrin:
kala kala me khula khataa shee:icon_biggrin: :tongue:

[MandoKhail]

I doubt you will be running anywhere, you will be spell bound to the screen if you see an image of her, rust me, she is that beautiful.
oss lady daina ma zenai jorrawa...She was crossing near to Govt girls college n all girls got scared n runaway inside while crying...hahahahhahha

These are all jokes..plz plz don't take it seriuse.

[Zahid Buneray]

dont worry lyla, we all know you are beautiful inside and out and Aneela told me how very attractive and smart you are.

If you guys are very very good Aneela may decide to share the picture she took of Lyla.

Daa kaar rala onagorai. Hasey hum agha "dominent" da pa KW au bia kho ba da "brekhnagano" ado sok tapos nakawee.:icon_biggrin:

Beside the joks, I have respect for evevry member of this forum but I can't forget the Sabar, Tahammol ao Bardasht of Lyla.

Daa kho yao lyla da che hujra key hum jwandoon terawee
Do ko bala khaza wey pookha ba takhtedale wa.

[Unregistered]

Hagha wrazay laarday che khalak ba husan tha hairaan-e doo,, wus dona dee che choice graan sho..
awo bya ba hagha husan che sirf katal yee awo haasil nayee no pa haghay kho wus ado sok time na zayah kayee.

awo swasto bibi! tawazun har kala maza keye... baghair emotions na kho banda asay robot wee no.

[chaste]

da choice graan zaka sho ...che makeup tol khalak yo shantay kral aoo da husan pejandgalo peh kay grana shva ..zaka che day masks asal husan pat kro...yo tolo khalko la yeh yo shakal warko(makeover)...su pooh shvay